SEXUALITY, INTIMACY, AND COMMITMENT
Dennis B. Kottler, MD
Westlake Village, CA
Appointments: 818-991-8376
Email: doc@psychiatrix.com
See also:
Relationships Part I & Relationships Part II & Sexual Disorders
SEXUALITY, INTIMACY, and COMMITMENT seem to suffer from problems of differing expectations. While one person might think they all go together in an ideal long-term relationship, this may not be the case for the partner.
In the best case scenario, these expectations are discussed early on in the relationship, before marriage, children, etc. Nonetheless, there may be different values placed on these aspects of a relationship and the values may change over time.
When these expectations get "out of synch" resentments pile up. These resentments lead to further deterioration in the relationship.
Physiological issues also arise, such as diminished sexual drive and ability to become aroused, and they may occur at different times in each partner. On the other hand, non-sexual issues may arise in one or both partners leading to "sexual sabotage."
Before IRREVOCABLE HARM is done, it is imperative to seek the counseling services of a good psychiatrist, therapist, or life coach.
Appointments: 818-991-8376
Email: doc@psychiatrix.com